We're British so we tend to "Don't make a fuss dear". But making a fuss works. Here's the story, in order:
http://news.bbc.co.uk/1/hi/uk_politics/7831565.stm
http://news.bbc.co.uk/1/hi/uk_politics/7837852.stm
http://news.bbc.co.uk/1/hi/uk_politics/7842402.stm
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